When I saw them earlier this month they played Hate Everyone, Shiksa, Wow, I Can Be Sexual Too, No Soul, Woe, Mara & Me, Do Better, Every Man Has A Molly, Eloise, Glory of Love. Kind of upsetting that they didn't play Belt or Admit It!
Also, like everyone has said, the guys normally hang around in the crowd. My friend and I hung out with Parker in the back for a bit, then after the show was over we waited by their bus. After a while Max came out to talk for a very short time. It looked like he just got out of the shower, and he was wearing pajama pants. By the bus is where my friend and I have always seen Max. Kind of feels stalkerish, especially since we were the only ones by the Say Anything bus for this show... but they've always been cool with it as far as I can tell.
My friend and I got max to sign the picture we got of us taken with him from the last time. This sucker's getting framed!
http://n0rgan.com/personal/maxnme.jpg